I find this technique very enriching, but given our usual nature and habit, it is difficult to get out of old ways. When in an argument, we often try to defeat the other. We are out to demolish the other and win over. How about merely expressing oneself, rather than attacking the other?
A rather mature way of arguing is to merely present one's state of mind and heart to the other, rather than breathe fire down the other's whole present and past. In that way, there is no real point of argument. There is merely stating of one's feelings and emotions in the given context. It is not a threat to the other but a merely acknowledgement of one's state. Any mature person would see that it is only an expression and not a challenge to one's position or idea.
Add this to the list of "easier said than done!"
A rather mature way of arguing is to merely present one's state of mind and heart to the other, rather than breathe fire down the other's whole present and past. In that way, there is no real point of argument. There is merely stating of one's feelings and emotions in the given context. It is not a threat to the other but a merely acknowledgement of one's state. Any mature person would see that it is only an expression and not a challenge to one's position or idea.
Add this to the list of "easier said than done!"
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